Stop Abandoning Yourself: The Real Work of Self-Trust
(from Uncharted & Unfiltered — A Journey Back to You)
There’s a moment every high-achieving leader knows too well.
You’ve checked all the boxes, delivered all the outcomes, and yet something inside still whispers:
“I’m tired.”
That isn’t weakness.
That’s wisdom — your nervous system saying, “I don’t feel safe being me… yet.”
We live in a culture that worships performance and calls it purpose. We learn to survive through excellence, yet forget how to feel at home in our own lives.
And the truth is, self-trust isn’t a mindset you master — it’s a practice of remembering what safety feels like inside your own skin.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
In this week’s conversation, I name what most leaders secretly feel but can’t quite explain —
that invisible tug between the life that looks right and the life that actually feels like home.
By the end, you’ll understand:
Why all your mindset tools haven’t been enough.
How your body has been trying to get your attention.
The three stages of rebuilding self-trust — Awareness, Alignment, and Embodiment.
What changes when you stop proving and start choosing.
Because the real cost of self-doubt isn’t just lost time — it’s lost aliveness.
🎧 Listen below: Episode 171 — “Stop Abandoning Yourself: The Real Work of Self-Trust.”
Behind the Mic
When I created space for leaders to come home to themselves, I called it Be the Light — a place where authenticity could breathe.
But over time, that work evolved into something deeper:
The Self-Trust Arc™.
It’s the sacred + practical space for high-integrity humans who are done performing and ready to lead from wholeness.
Because when you carry what isn’t yours, it drains your energy, dulls your presence, and hides your brilliance.
And every time you abandon your own truth, the world loses a little of your magic.
A New Invitation
If this episode stirred something in you — that quiet knowing that it’s time to stop managing your image and start inhabiting your life — come join me inside The Self-Trust Arc Membership.
Two live sessions this month:
Meet Me on the Arc — Wednesday, Nov 12 at 12:30 PM AST
From Pressure to Presence — Thursday, Nov 21 at 1 PM AST
No prep. No posturing. Just your presence.
Membership: $111 CAD/month.
Coffee fuels your alertness. Self-trust fuels your aliveness.
The return isn’t in dollars — it’s in peace, clarity, and the freedom to live your own rhythm again.
👉 Join The Self-Trust Arc Membership Here
You’ve been walking this path your whole life.
Now, let’s walk it together — consciously, compassionately, and in good company.
Because the moment you stop betraying yourself, you don’t just find freedom.
You become it.
Listen to the full episode here:
